“Toy” of the Day – Ben Wa Balls
Ben Wa Balls, or Ben Wah Balls are small weighted metal balls that have been used since about 500 A.D. They are also known as Love Balls and Pleasure Balls. There original use was to provide a man with extra pleasure during intercourse, but women soon discovered that they were sexually stimulating for them as well. The feeling of the balls floating freely in the vagina and constantly massaging the vaginal walls causes intense sexual arousal.
Instructions on how to use Ben Wa Balls:
-Purchase plastic balls or larger duotone balls if you are a first timer, the metal balls tend to fall out if your PC muscles are not strong.
- Empty your bladder first, it will make it easier to hold the balls in.
- Insert one ball at a time, this is easier done if one leg is lifted up. Squeeze the PC muscles and hold the balls in. You will notice a feeling of fullness and notice the balls pushing down, but after a while you will be used to it, sort of like wearing a tampon.
- Wear them for a few hours every day.
- To remove the balls, you can lift up one leg and cough, or jump up and down. There is no way that the balls will ‘dissapear’ into your body.
Ben Wa Ball Beginner Tips:
- When you first wear Ben Wa Balls, stay home and do not do any heavy physical activity, the balls will fall out. If they do, wash them off with soap and water and put it back in. It is also not recommened to go out and do any chores while you are getting used to the Ben Wa Balls, that would be embarrasing to sneeze in the supermarket and have a ball fall down your pant leg! It will take a few weeks of regualr wearing before your muscles will be able to hold them in through phisical activity. Be patient!
- Once you have no problem holding in the duotone balls, you can upgrade to metal balls and enjoy the benefits of strong PC muscles, it will pay off escpecially when you are older and if you give birth!
- You can wear Ben Wa Balls during sexual intercourse, this will add more fullness to your vagina and stimulate the penis as well. Using them during sex is also a good way to create more natural vaginal lubrication. Ben Wa Balls are perfect for G-spot stimulation.
